Thursday, March 19, 2009

To Help or Not to Help

A uni fren of mine called me yday on my way back. I havent been in touch with him for the last 10 years. we know each other through some other friends in hall and occasionally went to his mansion for mahjong. Yesterday he called me and ask me if how's J. J is his good fren in uni days but i guessed they havent been contacting for a very long time.

Apparently, J has get himself into heavy debts once again due to soccer bets. Yes , is once again because this is not the first time. about 1.5 - 2years back the same thing happened and i attempted to help him.

Haev a short sms conversation with him yesterday . All the "standard" yes i will change, no i dunno why this happens comes out. Anyway the takeaway from that conversation is "if you really have decided to turn over a new leaf, dun count on your frens, sort ur problems out yourself"

Helping a Fren and Harming a Fren is just a line away.

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